Beginner spread · 3 cards

The You · Them · The Connection spread

Reflecting on a relationship dynamic.

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How to read each position

Lay the cards in the order below, turning each one face up as you come to it. Read the card in light of the question its position asks, then let the positions speak to each other. There is no single correct reading, only the reflection the cards help you reach.

  1. 1
    You
    What you bring - your energy in this bond.
  2. 2
    Them
    Their energy as it meets yours (a reflection, not mind-reading).
  3. 3
    The Connection
    The nature of the connection between you.

When should you use the You · Them · The Connection spread?

Reflecting on a relationship dynamic.Before you shuffle, phrase the question as something open about yourself, a “what can I understand about...” rather than a yes or no. If you are new to reading, keep the deck in front of you and look up each card as it lands. You can learn the cards one at a time in Student Mode, or look up any card in the full library of meanings.

Common questions

How many cards are in the You · Them · The Connection spread?

The You · Them · The Connection spread uses 3 cards, read in order: You, Them, The Connection.

What is the You · Them · The Connection spread used for?

Reflecting on a relationship dynamic.

Is the You · Them · The Connection spread good for beginners?

Yes. The You · Them · The Connection spread is a good place to start, with just 3 cards to read.

Does the You · Them · The Connection spread predict the future?

No. In Auspice every spread is a tool for reflection and self-understanding, a way to think a situation through, never a prediction of what will happen.

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